Today I posted an episode related to the *legalities of consensual forced sex...among other scenarios.
The key is in the sentence above! CONSENT! Consent in everything we do in this kinky wonderful world! There is a difference between consent for general sexual conduct and consent for BDSM or kink sexual conduct. Consent for general sexual conduct can be inferred by body language or it can be verbalized. You all know when someone wants something or not in a general sexual way. But for Kink/BDSM consent needs to be verbal and with enthusiasm.
That last bit is not required but it sure does go a long way for future issues if you are both enthusiastic about your future adult games. Listen to today's podcast for more on this topic!
So, if you decide to jump into the kink pool....please take the time to explore your minds a while (regarding what you are doing) make sure you are doing this for the right reasons and that both parties are comfortable in what you are doing. The journey to making this life a reality can and should be as sexually charged as the act will be!
And do not forget your opening statement....... " This is a safe place for the other to talk about our fantasies without judgement. We both know, in the beginning, this is fantasy! We will not move into the next phase of making it a reality until we are both ready, if ever."
*I'm not a lawyer. I speak from knowledge gained through education, common sense and opinion. Please do your own research before making decisions.
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